Congratulations to the winner of the Character Concepts curriculum giveaway-
Thanks to all who entered!
Congratulations to the winner of the Character Concepts curriculum giveaway-
Thanks to all who entered!
I am so excited to be hosting my first giveaway! Read on to find out about this wonderful resource!
I believe that the preschool years are a perfect time to focus on learning to have godly character. This is the time that we are laying the foundation for our children to be obedient, honest, respectful, and diligent.
This year I have been using a book for my character training time with my little ones. It is called Crossroads of Character: Learning to Make Wise Choices. I wanted to share it, because it has been such a helpful resource in our home.
It was written by Marilyn Boyer and her grown daughter Kate Boyer Brown. The Boyers are veteran homeschoolers (they have been homeschooling for over 30 years now!) and have a business called The Learning Parent. I have enjoyed their materials for several years now, and Crossroads of Character has to be one of my favorites.
Crossroads of Character contains cute stories of children making choices that are wise and pleasing to God. 12 stories are included, and each story is about a different character quality. The beginning of the story starts with the character quality and a definition of the character quality.
For example, one story is about patience. The definition is “waiting with a happy heart,” and the scripture reference is Galations 6:9 “and let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap if we faint not“. The character traits covered are: obedience, patience, honesty, gratefulness, responsibility, respectfulness, initiative, diligence, kindness, contentment, and deference (sharing).
While Crossroads of Character is aimed at the preschool set, my eight-year old enjoys listening as well. The stories are enjoyable to read and have cute pictures to go along. My children have really loved this book and it has helped me to teach them specific godly character traits. What I love about this book is that it gives young children something concrete to remember and apply regarding character.
For example, the story about patience is about a brother and sister excited to do something special with their cousins, but they have to finish their schoolwork first. This requires them to have patience, to “wait with a happy heart.” Memorizing this definition of patience with my five-year-old has been helpful in circumstances where he needs to wait for something patiently. I will ask him “Are you waiting with a happy heart?”, and this often helps him make the wise choice.
The Boyers also have a new preschool curriculum, Character Concepts, which is an extention of the Crossroads of Character book. This curriculum focuses on teaching preschoolers scripture and godly character. It is divided into 12 units, one unit for each character quality. Each unit is completed over a period of three weeks. During this three weeks the character is reinforced through history stories (using Uncle Ricks History Stories for Children CD), Bible stories and scripture memory, and includes fun hands-on activities as well! The unit also covers alphabet and writing, with the option of adding in other subjects, such as science. This could definitely be used as a rich year-long prechool curriculum, but would also work as a character curriculum for a wider span of ages.
Yeah! Now onto the giveaway! Marilyn Boyer has graciously given me a complete Character Concepts for Preschooler curriculum to give to one of you! This includes:
Crossroads of Character: Learning to Make Wise Choices
History for Preschoolers CD
Learning ABC`s with the Cousins Flashcards
Hands-on Character Building
Mom`s Guide: (“Supplies you with information to effectively teach your preschoolers for a full 36 week period. Patterns are given for seasonal and educational crafts. Suggestions are made for family fun trips to help make learning fun ,and as a bonus, over 30 recipes are included for fun food to make with your preschooler.”
To enter: Leave a comment. :)
1. Visit The Learning Parent and leave a comment telling me of one other Boyer product you have enjoyed or would like to try.
2. Blog about this giveaway.
Be sure to leave a separate comment for each entry. :)
The giveaway will end Friday, August 19th and the winner will be chosen at random.
Also, You can use the code CHARACTER2 to receive a 20% off coupon at The Learning Parent!
John Piper on Christian Womanhood over at A Wise Woman Builds Her House
I have been in treatment for chronic Lyme Disease for almost 9 months now. And during this time, I have learned that when Mommy doesn’t feel well, it greatly affects the rest of the household. While not all of us are struggling with a chronic illness, many of us have suffered bouts of morning sickness or short-term illnesses that have affected our ability to mother and run a household.
What steps can we take to make those times easier on ourselves, and on our family? Although I definitely don’t have everything figured out, God has taught me many lessons this past year, and I (very humbly) share some of these with you.
1. Simplify. This often includes simplifying meal plans. Crock pots are such a useful tool for everybody, but especially for moms struggling with feeling poorly. Also, when I am feeling better or have more energy, I try to make meals to freeze. That way when I’m not feeling well, I will hopefully have something in the freezer that’s easy to heat up and serve.
Simpifying may also mean cutting down on our commitments outside the home. Maybe this is a year to take off from children’s extra activities and spend more time together at home as a family.
I have also had to simplify our homeschooling this year. A couple of months into our school year, I made some curriculum changes that allowed my children to work more independently. For example, we switched from Rod And Staff English to Easy Grammar for my sixth grader. This was much easier for me to quickly explain a new concept with her, and allow her to do the rest independently. This was so helpful on days that I wasn’t feeling well (sometimes homeschooling from laying on the couch in our schoolroom!:) )
2. Delegate. I will admit I’m not the best at this. The prideful part of me thinks I need to be able to do it all, to be “supermom”. But the truth is that God has allowed this in my life not only for benefit, but for my children’s as well. God wants to teach not only me during this time, but my children also. That may include becoming more independent and taking on more responsibilities.
I remember hearing somewhere that if you want a child to be more responsible, . Children are capable of more than we probably give them credit for. And when Mommy isn’t feeling well, it provides an opportunity for children to serve each other and others.
3. Make the best choice. A wise friend of mine who has herself struggled with chronic illness for many years gave me some wise advice: ask yourself throughout the day “What is the best choice in this situation?” It might be choosing to have a simple breakfast that morning instead of trying to make something from scratch. It might be choosing to stay home that day instead of going out as you had planned or choosing to go to bed on time. Or, it might mean making the best choice in something very small (giving the kids their apples or sandwiches whole instead of taking the time and energy to cut them up). There have been days that I have had to ask myself “What is best?” all day long.
4. Ask for help. This is another one that I’m not very good at. It is humbling to ask for help, to admit that I can’t do it all. But I also have to remember that asking for help provides an opportunity for someone else to serve the body of Christ.
Asking for help can also include hiring help. Perhaps having someone come in to help clean every other week would be a huge help just for the next several months. Or maybe asking a friend’s daughter to come be a mother’s helper once a week.
5. Know that this is God’s will for you right now and it is for your good.
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us. Romans 5:3-5
6. Give thanks and praise him, even in your suffering.
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
These last two are the hardest for me to live out. But God’s Word is Truth. And God has blessed me when I have chosen to obey Him, praise Him, and give Him thanks in the midst of this trial. May God bless you.
I would love to hear from you other Mommies. Do you have any additional suggestions or ideas about managing in times when you are not feeling well?
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As mothers who are pouring our lives into our children, seeking to diligently train and disciple them, there are sometimes moments of discouragement (Will she grow to have more of a servant’s heart? Will he ever have victory over his lack of self-control? Will they grow up to follow Christ or are my efforts meaningless?).
I recently read an article by Tracy Klicka on this topic that was so encouraging to me that I want to share it with you. In this article, Tracy shares the secrets of the bamboo farmer and how that relates to the spiritual growth of our children. Although she specifically mentions parenting teens, I think this metaphor is relevant for all ages.
“I love the story of the farmer and the Chinese bamboo tree, for it accurately reflects what the teen years are often like. When a farmer plants a bamboo tree in the ground, though he waters and fertilizes it for a year, he sees absolutely no growth. The second year he does the same and he sees…no growth. The third year is spent doing the same. Again, no growth. At this point, I’m wondering how the first bamboo farmer kept going (!) for once again, in the fourth year, though there is the same faithful watering and fertilizing…there is alas, no visible growth.
This last adjective is important to notice—for several years the farmer sees no visible growth. This is where as parents so many of us can relate. We invest in our children’s hearts, giving them the Word of God, praying with and for them, seeking to bring the truth of the gospel into their lives. Then we wait with longing to see spiritual fruit and genuine faith come forth from their hearts. And for many of us, what we see is similar to what that bamboo farmer sees—a tiny, little stub of a bamboo shoot, certainly not reflective of what we’ve been pouring into our children for so many years!”
Read the rest of the article here at Tracy Klicka’s website.
“…being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” Phil. 1:6
I want to share a great video by Bonnie at Mom By Example. In this YouTube video, Bonnie expains how to teach a baby or toddler to sit quietly. This is such a valuable skill to teach little ones, and she explains it wonderfully. Click here to watch.
If you want to read Bonnie’s post about it, go to Mom by Example.